It’s Today
Jan 2, 2011 General
Today I’m saying yes to Yes.
Do you want a popsicle?
Do you want to go to the beach?
Do you want to play blocks?
Here’s to 2011 and
forgetting to keep track of whose turn it is to do dishes
being beaten at Old Maid by 4-year-olds
comforting the baby in the middle of the night
perfecting a batch of lava cupcakes for the 5th time
deciding to feel less overwhelmed
caring when it’s important and letting go when it’s not
spending more moments with family and friends that feel like family
Lilikoi Cream Popsicles
1 Cup lilikoi juice
1/3 Cup cream
2 Tbsp sugar
1/8 tsp vanilla
Combine all ingredients and freeze in popsicle molds.
If you have a zoku, make a filled popsicle: 1) combine the cream, sugar, and vanilla. 2)pour the lilikoi juice in molds. 3) siphon out the middle after 2-3 minutes (you’ll see a thin layer on the outside form) 4) carefully pour the sweetened cream into the middle of the popsicle mold. 
Tags: 4 Year Olds, Cream Sugar, Cupcakes, Dishes, Family And Friends, Lava, Mold, Old Maid, Popsicle Molds, Tbsp, Thin Layer, Vanilla, Zoku
Reducing Holiday Stress
Aug 24, 2010 Bakery House
The holiday season is upon us. It seems like only yesterday we were putting away the decorations and making New Years resolutions. Now Thanksgiving has passed and we’re all getting ready for December. Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukah, Kwanzaa or any other big holiday, the pressure of the season seems magnified compared to other times of the year.
It is also a time when we remember those who won’t be with us during the holiday season. Perhaps you have lost a loved one or you have a son or daughter in the military or away at college who can’t get home. Maybe they want to go on a ski trip with their friends instead. And, as the family grows, the juggling act of whose family to spend the holidays with often creates hard feelings for the family that not chosen. Perhaps money, or lack of money, is an issue. The anxiety induced by financial difficulties is high on the list of reasons for relationship conflict.
For many people, the stress of the holidays diminishes the joy of the festivities. Preparing the right meal, buying the right gift, having the right clothes, and cleaning the house can be overwhelming. Truly, don’t you deserve to enjoy the holidays? More importantly, don’t you deserve to enjoy each and every day?
Take a deep breath. Relax. It doesn’t have to be perfect. Don’t make yourself crazy making sure that your house is spotless and your meal is perfect. The holidays are about family and friends, not about the food.
Now, for some practical tips whether you’re celebrating with family or alone:
IF YOU’RE HAVING THE FAMILY:
While some people enjoy the hustle and bustle of holiday shopping and decorating, others find it cumbersome and confusing. There is the pressure to find exactly the right gift, to have the house decorated to Martha Stewart perfection, and to cook a meal worthy of Wolfgang Puck. Somewhere along the line, the true meaning of the holiday season has become muddled, and for so many people it is more stressful than enjoyable.
If you’re having the family over, here are some simple ways to relax and enjoy the holiday – a way to be a guest at your own party:
First, ORGANIZE! Make lists of everything that needs to be done. Have a list of things to buy for the big dinner; a list of presents for each person; a list of things to do in the house. Keep the lists handy so you can alter them as needed.
Then, PRIORITIZE! Figure out the Must Do’s and tackle them first. Then consider the Want To Do’s, see how much time and energy you have and decide how to proceed.
Finally, DELEGATE! Ask someone else to pick up the items on your grocery list; consider having a service come in to clean your home. Ask guests to supply the dessert or the wine. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Here are some more tips: Consider ordering gifts on-line. Some sites even offer gift wrapping and free shipping; but most importantly it saves you time and the pressure of facing the mall. You can even order food on-line or at local gourmet grocery.
Love the aroma of fresh baked cookies, but you can’t find your way around a kitchen? Buy a “Christmas Cookie” scented candle and check out your neighborhood bakery.
Most importantly and something that happens to all of us: make sure you have everything you need and you know where it is before you begin any project. Have you ever started wrapping packages and discovered that you can’t find a pair of scissors? Gather all your tools together before you begin.
Be sure to reasonably allocate your time. If you underestimate how long it will take to perform each task, you will be constantly running behind schedule.
Try to fit in a manicure, a massage, a lunch date – something that will help you reconnect and relax. Give yourself permission to find some pleasure in the process.
Holidays are about making memories. Make sure you have plenty of camera memory cards, film or tapes for your camcorder. And don’t forget to make sure that everything is charged and ready to go.
Turn on some holiday music to set the mood. Who doesn’t feel better listening to Jose Feliciano singing, “Feliz Navidad” or Adam Sandler’s “Hanukkah Song”?
Whatever holiday you celebrate, remember that it is not about the stuff, it’s about the love.
The following websites are personal favorites of ours, and we want to share them with you:
Amazon.com – gifts for the whole family.
rachaelray.com – simple holiday recipes and organizational tips.
flylady.net – tips to help you to organize your life and simplify!
hgtv.com – decorating ideas.
realsimple.com – helpful holiday hints.
allrecipes.com – real recipes submitted and reviewed by real people.
We hope you will find useful tips and information to help you to be a guest at your own party! But what if you’re not having a party and are alone and not celebrating with family or friends.
IF YOU’RE ALONE
Some of us live away from our family, some of us have gone through a divorce or lost a loved one and may be alone or with only one or two people. Maybe it’s the first year you’re alone or maybe it’s the tenth. It doesn’t matter. The holidays for some are times of stress. We think we’re supposed to be happy, but we’re not. We think we’re supposed to embrace the holidays, but maybe fear is standing in the way.
Here are some suggestions for things to do if you’re alone and prefer not to be alone:
TRAVEL. There’s still time to plan a trip. Go on a cruise that has set dinner tables – you don’t have to dine alone. Take an organized tour of someplace you’ve always wanted to go. On tours there are couples and there are singles and think of all the people you might meet!
If you plan to stay home:
INVITE. Make a list of all the people you know who are also alone and invite them over. Follow the suggestions above to have a stress free holiday.
TELL A FRIEND that you’re going to be alone. Your friends are your friends and they want to be there for you. People want to help.
GO TO A RESTAURANT. Find one other person who is alone, or your child, or your parent and make a reservation at a restaurant where you never get to go. Make it special.
ASK AT YOUR HOUSE OF WORSHIP. Many churches and temples have dinners on the holidays. Many also know of people who welcome someone who is alone. Don’t be embarrassed, do it. You never know you could meet your best new friends that night.
VOLUNTEER. If you’re not ready for a celebration, volunteer. There are so many places that can use your help to serve meals to those who are less fortunate than we are.
The most important thing we can say is don’t sit home alone unless that is your preference. Embrace the holiday in as simple a way as you can and remember that your loved one wants you to be happy. This can be the first day of the rest of your life.
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Tags: Anxiety, Bustle, Deep Breath, Family And Friends, Festivities, Financial Difficulties, Hanukah, Hard Feelings, Holiday, Holiday Season, Holiday Shopping, Juggling Act, Kwanzaa, Martha Stewart, New Years Resolutions, Reducing, Reducing Holiday Stress, Relationship Conflict, Ski Trip, Stress, Thanksgiving, True Meaning, Wolfgang Puck
Storytime: Pigs Love Potatoes
Aug 11, 2010 General
Pigs Love Potatoes by Anika Denise and illustrated by Christopher Denise is a favorite of my daughter’s, even though it is extremely simple. Momma pig cooks potatoes for a dinner with family and friends. The book begins with the little piggies wanting to eat potatoes for dinner, and they end up helping their mom by peeling the potatoes. As guests arrive, she adds more potatoes to the pot. (Ten, for good measure… This book is as much about counting as it is about food.)
The actual food probably isn’t that appetizing (who eats plain boiled potatoes?), but for some reason it sounds perfect. We read this book at our house nearly every day. Amaya wanted to peel potatoes with me so I gave her some tips and she peeled potatoes all by herself!
The illustrations in Pigs Love Potatoes are super cute and the rhyme is not annoying at all. Bad sing-songy rhyme is a big pet peeve of mine with kids books. This one is short and simple enough to be catchy.
Another reason I like this book is because Amaya doesn’t actually like potatoes that much. Whenever she doesn’t like something I will fall back on her storybook characters’ adventures, “But potatoes are good! The pigs like them!” or “Spongebob goes to the dentist all the time!” I’m not sure it works, but she does look like she’s reconsidering.
Tags: Anika, Christopher Denise, cooks, Dentist, Family And Friends, Good Measure, Illustrations, Kids Books, Little Piggies, Love, Mom, Momma, Pet Peeve, Pig, Pigs, Pot, Potatoes, Rhyme, Storybook Characters
